advice din ng brother nya na hwag na nya daw ipaalam sa wife nya or ex wife nya na my iba n cya at may anak na kami kc daw baka mas lalong hindi pirmahan ng babae ung annulment papers kc nag-away daw cla ng girl this december lng regarding sa suporta (money matters) at sabi daw kc ng girl pahihirapan daw cya at sisiguraduhing di siya maikakasal sa iba.. i dont know lng if this is true. nakausap na daw ng attorney nya ung babae at hinihintay lng din nila ung exwife nya umuwe sa pinas kc nasa part ng europe ung girl..my trust naman ako sa tatay ng anak ko pero still i cant deny the fact din na mag-isip..very risky db? hoping bigyan kami ni Lord ng chance na makapag-usap personally...if he can't come home il be the one to go there..gusto ko lng malinawanagan ang lahat..bout are feelings to each other wala akong doubt pero our situation right now, parang nakikipaglaro ako sa apoy..noon, hate na hate ko ung mga taong naninira ng pamilya but look where i am now? haiiist..however, lage ko naman cinasabi if maayos pa nya family nya balikan na lng nya wife nya..pero he said di na raw nya mahal respeto na lng daw bilang tao natitira to her.
Give yourself sometime to process everything. If you just found out that he's still legally married, malamang tuliro at feeling cheated pa ang pakiramdam mo now. You're hurt and believe me, you have every right to feel that way. Stop thinking about what other people are thinking about you. Of course, your family will not warrant or agree to your set up, understandable iyon dahil pamilya mo sila, they only want what's best for you. But after you're done crying and feeling sorry, you should start thinking about what's best for your child and what you really want.
You repeatedly said na ramdam mo naman na mahal ka niya, ang tanong ko lang, has he given you reason(s) to doubt that? Give him an ultimatum to make things right for you and your child's future. Kung nakikita mo naman na gumagawa siya ng paraan to correct everything, doon mo lang ma-weweigh ang sincerety and love niya for you and your kid. Matagal ang annulment process, but the most important thing is 'yung makita mong he's going the extra mile to fix it.
You can't do anything about his past anymore, now that you know about it.. ask yourself if you are willing to embrace and accept him for all his flaws.
Most importantly, pray for divine providence so that He will guide you with all your decisions.